Be, or become, proud of You

Did the last post encourage you to put yourself in a more positive place? Know that often we can do little to change much of what surrounds us. Know that it is nobody's fault you are where you are. Know that if you want to change things around you, you can. If you were born into circumstance that makes most days a struggle for even the most basic comforts of life, do not commit to an entire existence in that position. Work to change it, even in the smallest amounts, over time. Keep your mind focused on where you want to get to in life. Put a small note on your bed, desk, mirror; somewhere you will see it often. Only small reminders that change often or they will be too constant and be either ignored or annoying. Refresh often. If you have a success, put that there too.

Putting it all in perspective makes the realisation of plans possible. Last summer it rained; a lot. On Facebook I posted that my boardshorts still had the tag on, my sunscreen bottle was still full. The status was a bit tongue in cheek, not really a complaint. Putting that in perspective made me flinch. The same rain that had kept me from the beach had sadly washed away homes, livelihoods and lives in some of the worst ever flooding in the area. Ouch! That's nature's perspective in action. Brutal. What do you need to put into perspective? How are your grades? Are they showing any signs of improvement? If they are stable, what sort of comments are you getting? Remember teachers and high schools are very cautious in writing comments because they do not want any comeback from the community. How much have you joined in this year? I do not mean compulsory stuff. What you should find is something you can do that would help out.

Make this year the year of consolidating a better future for you.

Begin the changes that will make you hold your head high and be super proud of what you have done and what you have become.

This is a great video called Success Achievement -- Your Guide for Moving Forward Daily

It is a top start the year and your advancement. Grow to who you really are.

Best of wishes for 2012.
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Success at School also means better comments

As you grow into this period of self reliance and perpetual improvement, it will seem that marks become only part of the picture. They are still one of the most important parts as it is these that will get your foot in the door. Also important to people taking you on as a trainee, a student for further studies or as an employee are the comments written about you. Many places of learning have an interview process to see if the potential student is both academically able to do the course and also fits into their vision of what the student body and future supporters of the alumni should be like.

Get yourself a few positive written comments. Get them from more than one source. Ask for them whenever you think someone will write you one. Try to add them slowly. There is no rush to do it all at once. People are suspicious of super rapid change. Maybe you could volunteer for something outside of school, something close to your heart. Help out in the community in an area you can see yourself working at for a while. Do not do it just for the sake of doing it. Have a serious think and do something useful; something that has some meaning for you. Selfish purpose always shows up. Written comments from the community are powerful allies in your step into the future.

Mixing work at school with that in the community reflects someone with maturity and can do attitude. It will gradually change you in a positive way. As always, make it small and grow the commitment to suit your timeframe and ambition. You will find that people come to rely on you, will ask for advice; you will become an expert. As your skills and knowledge grow, so will your position of authority. 'Good for you', 'Thank you for helping', 'I don't know what I could have done without your being here' are phrases you will be hearing. Hmmm. Don't they sound good. Very well worth it.

You will find it quite hard at first to juggle school with this new direction but stick with it and the world around you will change. Positive things will be attracted to you. The feeling of joy within will transfer to the sometimes mundane school classroom because you know there is more to it than those four walls. Success At School within those four walls will seem to flow more readily as planning and management skills grow. You will feel well rewarded.

So you may say your teachers don't like you, especially when you want to start improving your marks and make use of school while you are there. You may not fit the image of your teacher's ideal student at the moment but that will change. Good thing is, you don't have to change much to be successful and change your future to a full and prosperous one. Community work will lead to many crossroads and will definitely give you the positive comments you need written about who you really are to supplement improving grades and comments from the school.

Good luck. Have a great day.